Dec 17
8 days away.
In my travels yesterday, I heard
these phrases often: “Are you ready? Are you done shopping? Have your presents
wrapped? Is your baking done?”
It is, theoretically, the most
wonderful time of the year. You know, joy and merry and laughing all the way…
Do you see joy in Walmart? Do you
see laughter in long check-out lines?
Yeah, not so much.
Here is another phrase repeated ad
nauseum: Jesus is the Reason for the Season.
Is He though?
Christmas is my favorite holiday. I
love the decorations and buying the perfect presents and having extended family
meals. Celebrating the birth of Jesus is integral to my December celebration
and to my life.
But we have made Christmas
something (many things?) it isn’t.
Firstly, Jesus was not born on
December 25th. Look it up.
Secondly, there was no directive to
remember or celebrate His birth. When He said, “Do this in remembrance of me,”
it was not speaking to presents on December 25th.
Is it okay that we do? ABSOLUTELY!
Is it okay that each year American
Christians attempt to hijack this holiday season and disparage every other
celebration? Absolutely NOT!
The Winter Solstice has been honored
since people noticed daylight hours getting shorter, then rejoiced as they
increased.
Our Jewish friends first celebrated
Hanukkah in 165 BC to mark the rededication of the Second Temple in Jerusalem
after revolting against their oppressors.
Traditionally, December 6 is St
Nicholas Day in Europe. This is to commemorate the death of St. Nicholas of
Myra who is renowned for being a protector of children. Google can tell you how St Nicholas became Santa.
Let me say this again…I love
Christmas. My family has traditions that bring us great joy. I hope your family
does too.
But I believe our contorted version
of Christmas is the largest contributor to this being a difficult season for
folks. Pagans (non-Christians, not evil people) use pine trees during the
Solstice celebration as a symbol of life. Christians adopted the tree as a
symbol of eternal life. Hanukkah and St Nicholas Day are both times of
gift-giving, which Christians do on December 25.
None of this is inherently wrong.
If you bought me a gift, do not return it. I accept all presents.
But we miss the point.
Christmas is about connection and
reconnection. Because I love Jesus, Christmas is about the connection I have
with Him, the One who knew me long before I came to this earth. The One who
came to this Earth to deepen that connection. Jesus is my source. You might
call your maker Source or Universe or Allah or Mother Earth. And that’s okay.
It is even okay if you still celebrate Christmas and hoot and holler over
presents and put multigrain stuffing with nuts in your turkey (ICK).
Not having a connection with your
source makes life hard. You came from somewhere and connection to that source
is vital for a fulfilling life. It just is.
This holiday season can be
difficult, even heart wrenching, without that alignment. No matter our beliefs,
this time is about a new birth, a renewed vision, new and brighter days. That
vision can connect us across every divide.
What if we each celebrated in
whatever manner we choose that is not detrimental to others. Buy lots of gifts
or a few. Eat figgy pudding…or not. Put an inflatable Santa on a Harley in the
yard or choose a manger…or a menorah?
What if we stop demanding “Merry
Christmas” instead of “Happy Holidays,” which ignores history and alienates
people? When you are denigrating people who choose “Happy Holidays” it does not
encourage a desire to know more about Jesus. Seriously. It really doesn’t.
What if we sit quietly on Christmas
Eve or Christmas Day and think about our connection to Jesus, to our source, to
our family (blood or otherwise)? What if we turn our thoughts to rebirth,
rededication, brighter days?
Oh my…there is so much more to
discuss about how these holidays can enrich our lives.
For now, carry on in your own
Christmas way and let these words play in your head…
It’s beginning to look a lot
like Christmas
Soon the bells will start
And the thing that will make
them ring is the carol that you sing right within your heart.
We will talk again soon,
BP
Beth Painter is, among many other things, a writer, photographer, and motivational speaker. You can follow her on Facebook on the “Think Big focus small” page. Beth is available to speak to your group about how to make your dreams and desires come to life!